It is just a matter of looking at things a little different.
- "Are there any honest people in the world?"
- "Are there any people who will tell you the truth no matter how good or bad?"
- "If everyone is beating me down, what can I do?"
- "I've failed so many times, I can't think of anything else to do to solve this problem."
These words reflect the views and mindset of an individual who has given up on themselves.
It is sad to see how many people have done so.
These individuals don't view criticism as anything more than a personal attack. They don't see it as useful and may view it in a negative light. This negativity is failing to help them to build self-esteem or improve their lives in any way.
Criticism is often interpreted as a negative proponent. The fact is, it is a valuable tool for self-analysis. Nothing more.
Did you know that psychics use criticism to gain valuable insights?
Think about that statement for one minute. It makes sense. If you remain negative and advert criticism, how will you change? It is not hard for someone to determine your future.
Criticism is only advice you do not want to hear!
It does help and it should never effect you in a negative way.
I know some people are bad at delivering it, but stop listening for the how and listen for the why. Just because someone is not good at speaking, it does not mean that what they have to say is not valid.
It can be important and helpful.
Criticism makes people weary of doing this such as solving problems and contributing.
When you begin to accept criticism for what it is, nothing more than advice, you will begin to see its true value. It can be an effective tool for helping to improve your life.
You will never hold back a good idea for fear of it
This can change the world. Creativity is the mother of all new things.
You will see the positive aspects of other advice given to you
Sometimes a bad review is a good thing, it pushes you to do your best. This can result in a better outcome. Even better than you ever imagined.
You can focus only on the things that you need to change
People who see criticism as nothing but a personal attack sometimes feel overwhelmed. They begin to question themselves and then low self-esteem ensues.
Remember, no one is perfect. Everyone needs a little talking to once in a while.